Being friends is one thing, but sharing significant “love-life” moments is a bit much!
By Siksè Staff
It’s still wedding season and almost every weekend somebody is getting married! I really love when Christmas cheer is mixed with marital bliss- it adds an extra lift to the season. But with all this love and celebration going on, how do you really feel about sharing it with a past love?
I always commend exes who are mature enough to remain friends but is attending each other’s wedding taking it too far?
The emotions and intimacy that were once shared between two people are very hard to forget and to some extent, this could be very dangerous for post-breakup friendships. You never know who still has feelings and ulterior motives. It’s also very difficult to know somebody’s deepest fears, secrets and sex face — and then turn back to being regular friends. It just defies the laws of emotional physics!
Friendship is possible but going to your ex’s wedding is a bad idea. It could be messy, confusing and extremely awkward celebrating love with your past lover, especially if you know somewhere deep down you’re not yet over the relationship. Even if you have moved on, how do you think your current partner will feel about you witnessing your ex-lover’s nuptials?
Being friends is one thing, but sharing significant “love-life” moments is a bit much! Watching your past love tie the knot might sound good in theory, but in reality? It’s better you tactfully decline that wedding invitation and get on with your future!